RESILIENCE Resilience vs Temperance (God and Psychology)
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Do you know the distance between the Sun and Earth? They are a little less than 142,700,000 km To understand it, one hundred forty-two million seven hundred thousand kilometers. Listen to a scientist to tell that this is the exact distance you need a planet to be a star and take chances that life exists, if we are as close as Venus would not have life if we are as far as Mars would be no life, but not only the distance was what home life, said the scientist, also the volume density of the planet or a trillion cubic kilometers (1,000,000,000,000 km3), the radio almost forty thousand miles (40,000 km) in diameter Twelve Seven Hundred Fifty Six Thousand Miles (12,756 km). This was what gave this rock the chance to be suitable for life. Scientifically speaking, what chance is there that this is repeated in the universe? The number is astronomical. Religiously speaking, do not you think that a divine hand formed this rock? ... I am reminded of words of the Mexican science fiction writer Gabriel Trujillo Muñoz "Today, many thousands of years away, in a time when everything seems to have a rational or scientific explanation, the fantasy continues in the struggle and , although beset by psychological explanations or ideological disdain, even enjoying perfect health. "I think
that in life the same is true today when medical science has an answer for everything, the miracles continue to give the talk of this community, miracles still enjoy perfect health, and nobody knows how some fibers in the body are more resistant a person in another who succumbs to any disease.
RESILIENCE: There are many things to consider when looking for a psychologist to work in your areas Positive in your area of \u200b\u200bmiracles. Price, experience and references are some things you probably should keep in mind, we always really have the price, then the ideas. Before searching, make sure you have at least a small idea of \u200b\u200bthe work and who wants to have talks, he wants done. No way, never find in you an expert, someone who knows how you, as you think or act in certain cases and moments. If you have a licensed psychologist who knows you and thinks he knows who you are, then better get one that does not know you, get yourself one that does not know the details of your current mood and response. Now if you have a certified psychologist does not know you, please contact the Resilience and talk, ask her to talk about resilience. Then for the sake of human beings make a list of good things, and by stating that I say good, not to humanize humans because in the words of the lawyer José Gómez "every man's attempt to humanize activities ends up being a disgrace to himself and the planet "to list the specifics of what strengthens us, describing exactly what helps us to complete personal projects, a list of those things that only strengthened and not strong, have in common. Record here all that you have for each of the possible situations of life, disagrees with the answers and solutions you get in life, in books, in your mind. Ensures that when working on the final list of words the child can understand all you need. You know there way to succeed without putting in what we have, taking into account the information you give us the soul and heart, the chances of success are when only one that can help.
In the late seventies, began talks on a new domain, related to the internal development of the social sciences the concept of Resilience. The discussion around this concept began in the field of psychopathology, was found with great surprise and concern that some of the healthy children raised in families in which one or both parents were alcoholics and had been during development of their children, had no gaps in the biological, or psychosocial, but instead, achieved "adequate" quality of life, then came the question, which affects the psychopathy of some healthy children, where his condition arose when it was thought that it was their parents' addiction to alcohol.
Resilience comes from the Latin language, the term means RESILIENCE come back, a jump, stand out, bounce, the term was adapted to the social sciences to characterize those who, despite being born and living in situations high risk, healthy psychological development. Ability to emerge from adversity, adapt, recover and reach a meaningful and productive life. Universal human capacity to cope with life's adversities, overcome or even be transformed by them. Resilience is part of the evolutionary process and should be promoted since childhood.
resilience has been characterized as a set of social and intrapsychic processes that enable a healthy life, living in half insane. Resilience refers to a combination of factors that enable a child to a man, face and overcome the trials and tribulations of life. Resilience is the ability to resist deformation show strength and not in spite of adversity. Resilient children as those faced well despite environmental stressors to which they are subjected in their most formative years of his life.
distinguishes two components: 1) .- The resistance from destruction, ie the ability to protect its own integrity under pressure. 2) .- It is the ability to forge a positive vital performance, despite difficult circumstances. Components
Resilience:
Introspection: art ask yourself and give an honest answer
Independence: know how to set boundaries between self and environment problems, ability to maintain emotional and physical distance without falling into the insulation capacity
relationships: ability to establish relationships and intimacy with other people to balance their own need for affection with the attitude afforded to others.
Initiative: taste required and tested on tasks increasingly demanding.
Humor: finding the comic in his own tragedy
Creativity: ability to create order, beauty and order out of chaos and disorder
Morality: Implications for the personal desire to extend welfare to all mankind, and ability to engage in securities.
consistent Esteem: base of the other pillars and the result of consistent nurturing care of the child or adolescent by a significant adult.
Temperance: For the fantasy, artistic creation or the gift to heal the wound of a child, adult society has to be prepared to receive it and go with as it is, with its special and traumatized children. Here should clearly proving to be the moral of society, the naturalness of religion, the union of adults, Temperance in God. When retrieving the social bond, and sometimes contact with one person is sufficient, if, in this new frame, the wounded child succeeds in becoming a giver, only then can transform the ugly duckling into a swan. The happiness and welfare of the child are not an effect of chance or fate, is a human production never individual, even familiar, but the result of efforts of society as a whole. The protection and rights of children is the task of all who are recognized as human beings. Abuse is humiliating and imposes feelings of worthlessness, helplessness, hopelessness, social incompetence and guilt in children to escape it, must make a special effort to control the rest of their lives or use force to victimize others. However, the ability of many people who have had undesirable situations to lead normal lives is a clear testimony to the resilience of the human spirit, its ability to Temperance. Those who have overcome great trial described the meeting with a significant person, God, understanding of his love, optimism for eternal life, humor, affection, self-acceptance, hope, joy , generosity, hope, creativity, zest for life and work, described an encounter with GOD factors and Temperance. We are adults who should have around child development guidelines that will enable them to weave their lives, but they are the same people who took shelter in the blanket of their spirituality and their belief in a God who loves them. José Antonio OL